Life is an experience and all experiences teach us something new. Some like those lessons some don’t, i think it depends on how they take it. In a basketball game a team wins, the losers take it a bad experience and the winners of course a life changing experience.
Both the teams still have to work hard , one to do better and other to maintain the same level. I believe being positive and free of guilt or envy would do wonders for the mental and physical health.
Sharing is one thing, I believe, quite important in making us a strong individual, it can be with parents, siblings, spouse or friends. When they are not available we look for a therapist, this is totally my opinion which may not work for all…
Generally Happy 